Strong and Courageous with Zoe M. McCarthy
Sandra Ardoin @SandraArdoin
Today, I welcome my guest for the September Strong and Courageous post: Zoe M. Carthy. She’s relating her experience with a new endeavor—teaching a writing course—and how we can keep from “succumbing to anxieties.” Welcome, Zoe!
Last year, my nonfiction book on writing was in the publishing process. My editor and I brainstormed things I could do to help writers learn about my book. Teaching an ACFW Course online came up. I’d never taught an online course before, but I could do that. I’d use the material from the book that I’ve taught at ACFW Virginia Conferences and other venues.
In the spring of 2017, I submitted an application to teach a course in June 2018. Would prestigious ACFW with over 2000 worldwide members think my proposal worthy? I was a little surprised when the acceptance came soon after I submitted the proposal.
On my calendar, I scrolled forward to April 2018 and entered the task to turn my face-to-face workshop into an online course. No worries. The course was a year away.
When April 2018 arrived. I perused many of ACFW’s April Course posts, looking for pointers for leading my June course. And that’s when the enormity of what I’d signed up for sank in. Sending out two lessons a week for four weeks was a snap. What petrified me was that I’d be on call to read exercise responses and comment on every one for thirty days.
Now that the course was fast approaching, questions nipped at my bravado. How many of the 2,000 ACFW members would sign up? How would I keep them all straight, their names, their intro information, and their stories? Would they find what I taught little help and drop out? Was I qualified to critique their responses? These questions weren’t my only source of fear.
I had chosen June because the community Bible study I teach, the prayer shawl ministry I host, and other regular meetings stop gathering during the summer. Although I’d vowed to keep my calendar free of commitments during June, important events invaded my calendar. Would I let course participants down because I couldn’t keep up?
When fear rose, I reminded myself I’d been praying about the course and excellence. I told myself my job was to help course participants improve their scenes. To have a personal experience with each, I’d make a roster of participants that included nuggets they shared in their introductions. I’d respond to every email I received from the group no matter what happened in my days. (One day, I lost electricity and drove to another city’s library.) If participants needed more examples, I would supply them. If their exercise responses needed help, I’d humbly give suggestions. I’d give each the encouragement I’d covet if I were in their position. I’d pray.
And those activities are what I did.
Feedback during and at the end of the course and an invitation to teach another course, assured me prayer and sticking to my commitments was a good combination for success.
So, when fear rises we must remember God is for us and adhering the best we can to our prayerfully made plan for excellence works much better than succumbing to anxieties.
In times of fear, do you remind yourself that your job is to do what you’re responsible for and let God handle the rest?
The Putting Green Whisperer
Suddenly unemployed, Allie Masterson returns home to Cary, North Carolina where she caddies for her father on the PGA Seniors Tour. There, she encounters a man who possesses an alluring gift of reading the contours of the green. Fascinated with his uncanny ability, Allie is excited to meet the Green Whisperer—until she discovers that the easygoing caddy is actually Shoo Leonard, the boy who teased her relentlessly when they were kids. Despite Allie’s reservations, when Shoo is faced with having to overcome a hand injury, she agrees to use her sport science degree to become his trainer…and then she falls for him.
Shoo Leonard is grateful to Allie for her singular determination to get him ready for the PGA tour, but he isn’t ready for anything more. Still raw from a broken engagement and focused on his career, he’s content to be her fist-bumping buddy…but then he falls for her.
What seems like a happily-ever-after on the horizon takes a turn when Allie decides she’s become a distraction to Shoo’s career. Is it time for her to step away or can The Putting Green Whisperer find the right words to make her stay?
A full-time writer and speaker, Zoe M. McCarthy writes contemporary Christian romances involving tenderness and humor. She is the author of The Invisible Woman in a Red Dress, Gift of the Magpie, and Calculated Risk. Believing opposites distract, Zoe creates heroes and heroines who learn to embrace their differences. Zoe and her husband live in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia.
Book link: https://www.amazon.com/Putting-Green-Whisperer-Zoe-McCarthy-ebook/dp/B07FQZ6SYQ/
Social media links: Website and blog: https://zoemmccarthy.com
Zoe M. McCarthy
Thank you, Sandy, for hosting me on your blog today and allowing me to share my story of garnering courage,
Glad to have you, Zoe! Thanks for sharing your Strong and Courageous story.
I hope and pray I will remember God is in control and I need to let Him lead. There are times when I give things to God and take them right back. A learning process. 🙂
Oh, you’re not the only one, Melissa! **waving my hand** I think we all do that at times…giving those concerns to God and taking them right back.
Zoe M. McCarthy
I always call you Mimi. Now I know you’re really Melissa. I’ll miss calling you Mimi. Yes, it is a learning process. And God knows this and gives us opportunities to do better. Yea!
Thank you for sharing your experience of trusting God with a new endeavor.He gave you the gift of teaching and blessed you when you acted on it in faith. David said to Soloman “Be strong and courageous, and act; do not fear nor be dismayed, for the LORD God, my God, is with you. (1 Chronicles 28:20)
Thanks for that encouragement, Marcia!
Zoe M. McCarthy
Thank you, Marcia, for the scripture verse. I believed that in answers to my prayers God was with me during that month.